It Girl

My first baby turns 7 tomorrow, and so she is a hot commodity around here. She was invited to stay overnight at her friend’s house for a couple days, and then later this week, it will be an overnight with Grandma, who will also be taking her on a shopping trip. It’s no surprise to me that everyone wants to celebrate with her; I think she’s a really awesome kid and I’m glad that other people know it, too. What surprised me was the depth of her little brother’s sadness that she’s not around. When we were on our way to drop her off last night, my girl was a little sad, thinking of missing her family, even though she knew she’d have fun. Sethy was the one cheering her up, telling her what a good time she’d have. But on the way back, he cried and cried. He’d talk himself out of being sad, saying that he knew he’d see her in just a couple of days. Then some random thought would pop into his head, and he’d say, “Sissy!” and cry again. He slept in her bed last night. It’s heartbreaking, on the one hand, to see my sensitive boy so sad. But I’d rather have that issue than a sibling rivalry that overshadows the family. Bonus for Seth: He lit right up this morning when he realized that he wouldn’t have to share computer time with his sister.